2022
March
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Let Life Flow Forward
Inhabit the moving present rather than the frozen past.
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Let Life Flow Forward
February
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Restore Your Kind Attention
Denial buys time to gather resources and absorb information more gradually.
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Restore Your Kind Attention
January
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Care for Hidden Ruptures
Imagine if we collectively made it a high priority to help children and adults heal from attachment wounds.
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Care for Hidden Ruptures
2021
December
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Associate Yourself with Nature
Contact with nature can steady your nervous system and counter a sense of isolation and unreality.
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Associate Yourself with Nature
November
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Talk About Abusers
Most people are complex mixtures of good and bad intentions, benign and harmful behaviors.
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Talk About Abusers
October
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Accessible for This Starfish
When one person feels more welcome and safe, they can take more action and inspire others to action.
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Accessible for This Starfish
September
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Within Reach of Your Comfort Zone
When we have access to a secure home base, we can explore and take risks more freely.
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Within Reach of Your Comfort Zone
August
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Find Your Way to Rest
Rest because it nourishes you and adds enjoyment to your life.
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Find Your Way to Rest
July
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Nestle Into Uncertainty
When we allow uncertainty and hold our assumptions more lightly, we make room for change and hope.
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Nestle Into Uncertainty
June
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Inhabit Your Surface
Experiment with working less hard for a while.
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Inhabit Your Surface
May
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A Harvest of Understanding
With kind eyes, look back at this pandemic year.
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A Harvest of Understanding
April
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Respect Your Reservoir of Pain
Most of us carry old pain from the twists and turns our lives have taken.
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Respect Your Reservoir of Pain
March
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Embodying Hope: Introduction
We embody hope when we keep moving forward, one stubborn step after another, like walking through steady rain.
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Embodying Hope: Introduction
February
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Prefer Narratives with Hope, Updated
Try a new narrative: “My perceptions and responses make sense. I am intrinsically good. I am doing my best with the resources and knowledge I have.”
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Prefer Narratives with Hope, Updated
January
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Within Sight of Relief, Pause
Acknowledge losses and longings, and give yourself time to rest and recover.
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Within Sight of Relief, Pause
2020
December
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The “Good Person” Badge
Thanks to each of you for working so hard to be a good person.
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The “Good Person” Badge
November
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Kindness, Not Contempt
In this time of isolation, simply acknowledging someone with kind eyes is a gift.
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Kindness, Not Contempt
October
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Anchor Terror in Time
Terror moves us to act in the present, shows us where kind attention is needed to heal our past, and directs us to prepare for the future.
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Anchor Terror in Time
September
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Rock the Boat About Racism
White supremacy is a catastrophe for everyone. Gently gather your courage, step forward, and talk about racism.
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Rock the Boat About Racism
August
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Wear a Mask to Belong
Protect the community you already belong with.
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Wear a Mask to Belong
July
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Lift the Anger Lid With Care
Anger can fuel change toward more kindness, more truth, more respect, and more justice.
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Lift the Anger Lid With Care
June
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Adapt to New Risks
Allow yourself to be a beginner at handling this pandemic.
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Adapt to New Risks
May
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Self-Care for Sticky Lungs
With your hand as an anchor, your relaxed breathing provides movement to gradually stretch and release adhesions.
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Self-Care for Sticky Lungs
April
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Agency in a Time of Pandemic
Recognize the quiet heroism of staying home.
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Agency in a Time of Pandemic
March
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Loosen Inner Deadlock
Inclusive solutions emerge from listening deeply to all our needs and fears.
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Loosen Inner Deadlock
February
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Mend What You Can Reach
When we take small actions within our reach, we build sustainability, community, and hope.
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Mend What You Can Reach
January
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Let Go for More Sound
As we restore our ease of movement, we restore our ability to be our complete selves out loud.
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Let Go for More Sound
2019
December
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In Search of Self-Confidence
Treat yourself as if you deserve to exist.
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In Search of Self-Confidence
November
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Get to Know Your Guts
Reconnect with your belly through kind touch and specific knowledge about the organs inside.
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Get to Know Your Guts
October
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Solid Support for Change
When we have more inner and outer resources, it is easier to take risks and try something new.
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Solid Support for Change
September
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The Push/Pull of Touch
When the need for touch has been met well enough, with kindness and safety, we accept the ongoing need as naturally as we accept the need to breathe.
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The Push/Pull of Touch
August
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Good Enough for Mistakes
We can use our skills and resources to recover from mistakes and integrate them into the flow of life.
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Good Enough for Mistakes
July
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Consider Additional Truths
The more we sense into our present environment and the people around us with caring, the less we impose our world view on others.
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Consider Additional Truths
June
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Celebrate Small Steps
Each of us can take time to soak up relief, hope, and ease when they arise.
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Celebrate Small Steps
May
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Intervene for a Better World
As the nervous system heals over time, our window of tolerance widens for minor infractions, and we can intervene more calmly and skillfully for larger issues.
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Intervene for a Better World
April
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Careful Conflict
Learning to manage conflict with care is a lifetime project for each of us.
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Careful Conflict
March
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Support a Friend in Crisis
"I'm here to listen."
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Support a Friend in Crisis
February
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Make Room for Grief
Grief is as individual and as universal as a fingerprint.
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Make Room for Grief
January
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How to Leave Your Practitioner
"Can we talk about what completing treatment and stopping would look like?"
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How to Leave Your Practitioner
2018
December
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Elements of Refuge
Healing practitioners can provide a calm refuge for overwhelmed survivors by offering a stable container around logistics, emotions, and the relationship.
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Elements of Refuge
November
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When Help Means Rescue
Helpers remove obstacles and add nourishment and support. They help us become more ourselves, rather than transforming us into someone else.
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When Help Means Rescue
October
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When Help Means Danger
When the first people to care for us also hurt us, of course it will be difficult to manage relationships with practitioners.
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When Help Means Danger
September
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Grow Away from Enmeshment
As you repair your boundaries and sense of self, rather than feeling woven together with someone else, you will gradually feel more solid in yourself.
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Grow Away from Enmeshment
August
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The Right Distance from Family
Whether we connect with our parents every day, once a year, or not at all, we can reduce the internal charge we carry toward them.
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The Right Distance from Family
July
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Balance for Your Inner Guardian
As your Inner Guardian becomes more integrated into the present, you can offer a more balanced, skillful response to present-time threats.
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Balance for Your Inner Guardian
June
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Resonate With Loneliness
Every time we turn toward our own experience with warmth, we strengthen our Inner Nurturer.
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Resonate With Loneliness
May
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Practice Kind Language
When we practice non-ableist language, it gives us more room to be imperfect humans, internally and externally.
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Practice Kind Language
April
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Offer a Collaborative Story
When we invite people to be on the same side with collaborative stories, we open the door to more connection in our lives.
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Offer a Collaborative Story
March
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Depression: Natural Response to Trauma
You are not broken. Your responses make sense. As you find ways to sit with inner terror and misery and loneliness for as long as they are there, they will gradually shift and make room for new feelings.
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Depression: Natural Response to Trauma
February
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Your Body Is Your Ally
When you tend to your body with generous care, you practice feeling better and receiving kindness right now.
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Your Body Is Your Ally
January
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Embody Hunger, Embody Fullness
To connect more directly with our bodies just as they are right now, we can bring more awareness to eating, hunger, and fullness.
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Embody Hunger, Embody Fullness
2017
December
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Add Ease to Anniversaries
When we can be a kind witness for our hurting selves, we can disentangle painful feelings from the time of year that brings them up.
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Add Ease to Anniversaries
November
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How to Resist Enough
Resisting oppression can be affirmative, creative, connected, nourishing.
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How to Resist Enough
October
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The Perils of Nice
When we do not constrain ourselves to be nice, we can step into the power of showing up as our authentic selves kindly and creatively.
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The Perils of Nice
September
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Sit with Disappointment
When we can sit with disappointment, we find our own balance between acceptance and efforts toward change.
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Sit with Disappointment
August
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Look into the Present
As we look at the world with more relaxation and clarity, we see more of the beauty and safety available to us.
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Look into the Present
July
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Seek Nourishing Feedback
We thrive on positive feedback, with the occasional bit of corrective negative feedback thrown in.
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Seek Nourishing Feedback
June
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Find Calm: Practice Rest and Regulation
Even if we missed out on learning how to be calm as babies, it is not too late for our nervous systems to learn about rest and regulation as adults.
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Find Calm: Practice Rest and Regulation
May
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Find Calm: A Polyvagal Primer
Stephen Porges' Polyvagal Theory explains our nervous system and helps us make sense of our behavior.
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Find Calm: A Polyvagal Primer
April
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Relieve Pressure: Replace Should with Could
"Should" makes us look over our shoulder to see if we are good enough yet. "Could" invites us to look inside instead.
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Relieve Pressure: Replace Should with Could
March
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Cherish Your Limits
Paying attention to our limits helps us compassionately care for ourselves.
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Cherish Your Limits
February
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Healthy Entitlement: Discern Your Domain
We are entitled to complete autonomy over the insides and surfaces of our bodies.
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Healthy Entitlement: Discern Your Domain
January
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Counter the Feelings Police
Emotions are meant to move. Giving them more space allows them to flow and change, peak and ebb.
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Counter the Feelings Police
2016
December
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Withstand Ongoing Trauma
As you move through difficult, triggering events in the present, bring along all the healing tools you have learned over time.
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Withstand Ongoing Trauma
November
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Presence After Trauma: Introduction
Becoming present is an ongoing exploration of willingness to accept what is, and willingness to allow it to change.
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Presence After Trauma: Introduction
October
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Protect Your Irritated Nervous System
When the nervous system is chronically irritated, it transmits sensations more strongly and is more likely to interpret strong sensations as pain.
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Protect Your Irritated Nervous System
September
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Prefer Narratives with Hope
Try a new narrative: “My perceptions and responses make sense. I am intrinsically good. I am doing my best with the resources and knowledge I have.”
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Prefer Narratives with Hope
August
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Trust Yourself Despite Everyday Gaslighting
Imagine a kind friend saying, "I believe you. It’s not you. You’re doing all the right things."
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Trust Yourself Despite Everyday Gaslighting
July
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When I Started
I stand with fellow victims and survivors and tell you that you do not need fixing.
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When I Started
June
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The Puzzle Box of Shame
Shame heals in many small steps.
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The Puzzle Box of Shame
May
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Heal Around the Edges
Trauma heals at the borders between comfortable and uncomfortable.
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Heal Around the Edges
April
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The Betrayal of Not Being Heard
We all deserve to have our distress heard and heeded.
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The Betrayal of Not Being Heard
March
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Not Alone with Your ACEs
A large majority of people have had Adverse Childhood Experiences, which directly affect our health.
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Not Alone with Your ACEs
February
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Worthy of Protection
We all deserve protection for our needy, vulnerable places as well as recognition of our strengths.
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Worthy of Protection
January
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Weave Your Body Whole
Kabbalah helps us weave the bits of ourselves back together.
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Weave Your Body Whole
2015
December
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The Sacred Work of Showing Up
Emotional labor is the detail work of caring, of noticing, of paying attention.
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The Sacred Work of Showing Up
November
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Patience with Long Endings
When we sit patiently with uncertainty, we make room for a new pattern to emerge.
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Patience with Long Endings
October
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Humans Allowed Full Body
Claim your inner terrain for yourself - it is your birthright.
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Humans Allowed Full Body
September
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Take a Break from Healing
You do not have to be perfect to be treated with respect.
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Take a Break from Healing
August
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Name Memories Without Words
Flashbacks to preverbal memories are intense, all-consuming, boundaryless.
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Name Memories Without Words
July
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The Heartbreak of “Why?”
Other people's cruelty is not our fault.
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The Heartbreak of “Why?”
June
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Serenity Through Your Locus of Control
One of the central tasks of healing is to reassign fault and power.
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Serenity Through Your Locus of Control
May
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Integration: Live into Both/And
There is deep healing when we invite a younger part closer and say, "You matter. Your experience matters. Your truth matters."
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Integration: Live into Both/And
April
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Check In With Your Chakras
The chakra system helps us focus on one kind of healing at a time, and notice what is going well in addition to what is difficult.
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Check In With Your Chakras
March
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Choose an Easier Road
The first step toward an easier road might be permission to make choices that lessen pain.
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Choose an Easier Road
February
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Enjoy Enthusiastic Consent
Consent is an unforced moment-to-moment agreement to participate in a specific activity.
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Enjoy Enthusiastic Consent
January
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Explore Uncurled Posture
The sensation might be, "Oh, I didn't realize I was holding there!" as a shoulder drops, or "I have more room than I thought," as a hip moves back.
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Explore Uncurled Posture
2014
December
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The Tyranny of Normal
Each body is normal in relation to itself, despite the myths we persist in believing against all evidence.
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The Tyranny of Normal
November
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All Done! Tools for Rapid Change
When we allow all our conflicting feelings to be present, drop what isn't ours, and imagine the problem is already solved, we can emerge into new terrain.
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All Done! Tools for Rapid Change
October
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Triggered! Now What?
Suddenly we are defiantly thirteen, or playfully four, or speechlessly afraid when we would prefer to be competent adults.
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Triggered! Now What?
September
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Decipher the Silent Treatment
In the face of non-response, we can choose to inquire, wait, or write off the interaction.
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Decipher the Silent Treatment
August
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Stand in Your Story
It is healthy to value your own viewpoint, no matter how personal and emotional.
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Stand in Your Story
July
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Rest at Sleep’s Threshold
Whether you sleep or not, night can be a time for rest, contemplation, and listening inside.
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Rest at Sleep’s Threshold
June
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Legs Dance, Kick, Run
Our legs are on our sides, like our arms, and start above the hip crease.
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Legs Dance, Kick, Run
May
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Deflect the Tone Argument
There is no tone calm enough to express uncomfortable truths to someone with the power to refuse to hear.
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Deflect the Tone Argument
April
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Arms Relate to the World
Our arms are structured to fluidly express our physical boundaries.
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Arms Relate to the World
March
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Sense Your Spine’s Support
When we trust our structure, our whole body relaxes, expands, and breathes more easily.
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Sense Your Spine’s Support
February
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Exit Emergency Mode
What if this problem is already solved?
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Exit Emergency Mode
January
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Unhook from Projection
When we stop fighting our shadows, we see ourselves and the rest of the world.
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Unhook from Projection
2013
December
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Let Your Jaw Speak
Physical movement in your avenue of expression creates sound. Immobility is silent.
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Let Your Jaw Speak
November
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Relax For Your Life
Relaxation is surrender, not to someone else, but to your present truth.
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Relax For Your Life
October
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Listen to Defensiveness
When we acknowledge defensiveness, we can open into curiosity and maintain connections with people around us.
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Listen to Defensiveness
September
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Interrupt Bullying
Change in a victim cannot fix a perpetrator's problem. We all have vulnerabilities, and we deserve to be treated with kindness around them.
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Interrupt Bullying
August
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Truth Across Lines of Authority
We live in a web of privilege and marginalization that affects how we express boundaries.
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Truth Across Lines of Authority
July
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Effects of Sexual Assault
Survivors face denial, hostility, and pressure to consider themselves less important than the perpetrator.
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Effects of Sexual Assault
June
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Achieve Approval
This person, this being, is filled with radiant love, approval, and pleasure at your very existence.
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Achieve Approval
May
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Sensitivity Survival Tips
Sensitivities challenge us to assert our body's needs rather than go along with the crowd.
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Sensitivity Survival Tips
April
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The Power of Gentle
We instinctively approach a frightened animal with slow, gentle movements and a soft voice. Traumatized humans need the same gentle approach.
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The Power of Gentle
March
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Reasons to Stay
If you know someone in an abusive situation, express your trust in their essential strength and capacity to find their way.
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Reasons to Stay
February
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Loving Anger
Listen inside, explore options, and take self-protective action with empathy for others.
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Loving Anger
January
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Navigate Change: Mind the Gap
When we move mindfully through small and large gaps, we create space in our lives for healing.
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Navigate Change: Mind the Gap
2012
December
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Heritage of Resilience
Resilience repeats across generations as survivors teach their strengths through stories and behavior.
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Heritage of Resilience
November
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Surrender Without Shame
Your painfully remembered surrender was a successful strategy to survive into this present moment.
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Surrender Without Shame
October
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How to Irritate Your Nervous System
Seeking irritation might be easier and more informative than seeking calm.
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How to Irritate Your Nervous System
September
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Discover Your Core Commitments
What do you reach toward no matter how many obstacles stand in your way?
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Discover Your Core Commitments
August
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Stuck in a Labyrinth
Sometimes there is no direct path to a goal, and turning away can help you move forward in unexpected ways.
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Stuck in a Labyrinth
July
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Change the Rules, Inhabit Your Pelvis
Bring awareness to the bony structure of your pelvis.
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Change the Rules, Inhabit Your Pelvis
June
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Repair Your Reality After Gaslighting
Gaslighting teaches you to doubt your perceptions of reality. To repair your self-trust, tune in to your internal signals with interested curiosity.
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Repair Your Reality After Gaslighting
May
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Permission to Stop Beating Yourself Up
Here is your Official Permission to believe you are good enough for self-compassion right now.
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Permission to Stop Beating Yourself Up
April
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Connect with Your Complex Voice
Humming can heal the isolation of trauma.
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Connect with Your Complex Voice
March
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Safety in Your Bones
Safety is an internal experience, a skill to be learned and a choice to be made.
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Safety in Your Bones
February
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Apologies: Good, Bad, and Abusive
Carefully crafted apologies can open the door to healing, or, with different intent, open the door to continued abuse.
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Apologies: Good, Bad, and Abusive
January
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Decision-Free Zone
Listen for what is true for you with a clear boundary that action is off the table.
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Decision-Free Zone
2011
December
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First-Aid for Desperate Moments
These phrases provide first-aid assistance when you need to feel better right now.
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First-Aid for Desperate Moments
November
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Allow Self-Forgiveness
Self-forgiveness is giving up all hope of being a different person.
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Allow Self-Forgiveness
October
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Spiritual Abuse: Take Back Your Faith
To heal from spiritual abuse, look inside for what you know for sure.
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Spiritual Abuse: Take Back Your Faith
September
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Addiction as Emotion Management
As you learn new techniques to manage your emotions, you will no longer need to avoid emotional and physical pain through addiction.
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Addiction as Emotion Management
August
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Frozen! Thaw from Surrender
When you give yourself full permission to feel helpless and frozen, it paradoxically creates space for healing and effective action.
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Frozen! Thaw from Surrender
July
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Many Voices, All Valid
Greet all parts of yourself with compassion to feel the validation you seek.
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Many Voices, All Valid
June
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Create: Walk into Fog
When you create, you are making your way across an unknown foggy landscape one decision at a time.
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Create: Walk into Fog
May
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Deepen Your Roots, Stretch Your Branches
Grow into a shape defined by your history and desires, like a tree becoming more intricately itself every year.
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Deepen Your Roots, Stretch Your Branches
April
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“Trust Me!” and Other Red Flags
When you pay attention to red flags, you claim your power to choose, help your self-trust heal, and make room in your life for people who treat you with respect.
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“Trust Me!” and Other Red Flags
March
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Step Away from Double Binds
How to identify and respond effectively to contradictory demands.
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Step Away from Double Binds
February
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Remember at Your Own Pace
Trauma is overwhelming, but healing doesn't have to be.
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Remember at Your Own Pace
January
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100 Percent On Your Own Side
Your Inner Nurturer knows you're doing it right.
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100 Percent On Your Own Side
2010
December
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Demand Respect, Not Victim-Blaming
You are already enough. No one deserves abuse for any reason.
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Demand Respect, Not Victim-Blaming
November
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Claim Your Space, Breathe into Your Back
Shallow chest breathing takes up as little space as possible. Deeper belly breathing pushes out into the world. Back breathing claims the space that is already yours.
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Claim Your Space, Breathe into Your Back
October
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Just-Right Visibility
Explore your skills at both hiding and shining.
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Just-Right Visibility
September
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Anxiety: Your Relaxation Coach
Interrupt anxiety with acceptance and understand its role in your body.
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Anxiety: Your Relaxation Coach
August
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The Joy of Maintenance
Enjoy maintenance tasks as affirmations of presence.
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The Joy of Maintenance
July
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Not Again! Tame Your Fiercest Patterns
When your recurring pattern has you in its claws, hold still and move in.
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Not Again! Tame Your Fiercest Patterns
June
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Say Yes to Your Boundaries
Boundaries are already part of us, a flexible container for our sensations, emotions, and preferences, separating "me" from "not-me".
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Say Yes to Your Boundaries
May
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Befriend Your Pain
To reduce suffering, relate to pain as a friend bearing a message rather than an enemy to be feared.
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Befriend Your Pain
April
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A Boundary-Nourishing Healer Search
Finding providers of caring touch and coming to trust them can be a journey in itself. -
Meditation: Safe Space for Noticing
Meditation is simpler and more welcoming than you might think.
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A Boundary-Nourishing Healer Search
March
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Needs Amnesty Day
Tired of figuring out which needs are allowed? Declare a Needs Amnesty Day and welcome them all.
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Needs Amnesty Day
February
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Flashbacks: Experience Distress in Safety
Flashbacks help you integrate traumatic memories. Learn how to recognize and respond to them as part of your healing.
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Flashbacks: Experience Distress in Safety
January
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Inner Child Lost -n- Found
If you often find yourself saying "I've tried everything!" or "Don't leave me!" or "See me!", visit the Inner Child Lost -n- Found for relief.
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Inner Child Lost -n- Found
2009
December
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Compassion for the Drama Triangle
The Drama Triangle model, applied with compassion, can help you change recurring conflicts.
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Compassion for the Drama Triangle
November
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Grieve Neglectful Mothering
Many clients have brought in their pain over neglectful or abusive mothering. May you have many reparative experiences!
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Grieve Neglectful Mothering
October
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Haunted by Shame? Change Your Committee!
Imagine living your life with a fully supportive, encouraging, and approving internal committee.
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Haunted by Shame? Change Your Committee!
September
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Invite Your Longing to Tea
What can you learn from sitting with longing rather than immediately fulfilling or suppressing it?
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Invite Your Longing to Tea
August
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Who Owns That Anger?
While anger can do damage when held in or unleashed on another, it can also lead to clarity and strength when handled with care.
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Who Owns That Anger?
July
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Gain Awareness of Dissociation
We all dissociate or lose contact with our bodies at times. How to notice and what to do about it.
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Gain Awareness of Dissociation
June
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Sensitivities: Your Self-Care Guide
Sensitivities can be a valuable guide for moving toward your ideal environment.
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Sensitivities: Your Self-Care Guide
May
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Behind the Curtain of Obsessive Thoughts
How to quiet those painful repeating trains of thought and see what is behind them.
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Behind the Curtain of Obsessive Thoughts
April
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Tell a Story about Denial
The positive aspects of denial, and a writing exercise to reduce some of its frustrations.
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Tell a Story about Denial
March
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Ups and Downs of Healing from Trauma
What to expect during the process of healing from trauma and some tips to get through the hard parts.
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Ups and Downs of Healing from Trauma
February
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Accept Suicidal Feelings
Links between trauma and suicidal feelings and some practical suggestions for yourself or someone who confides in you.
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Accept Suicidal Feelings
January
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Disclose Pain, Find Support
Describe the support you want, and increase the odds of receiving it.
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Disclose Pain, Find Support
2008
December
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Calm Your Inner Critic
You may have already noticed that arguing with your Inner Critic only leads to louder criticism, possibly about how self-critical you are.
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Calm Your Inner Critic
November
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Choose Your Traditions
Notice your expectations and desires around the winter holidays.
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Choose Your Traditions
October
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The Gift of Resistance
Resistance carries the gift of information from our deeper selves.
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The Gift of Resistance
September
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Emotional Abuse: You Deserve Better
Emotional abuse can be as obvious as name-calling and raging, or it can be so subtle you spend days wondering why you feel so bad.
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Emotional Abuse: You Deserve Better
2007
July
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Add Peace to Your Life
How to make peace a priority now, in the midst of struggle.
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Add Peace to Your Life
May
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Kuan Yin, Goddess of Compassion
My healing practice is dedicated to Kuan Yin. All those who have suffered trauma need compassion both from within and from others.
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Kuan Yin, Goddess of Compassion